Being Grounded, Self-Regulated, and Aligned

Being Grounded, Self-Regulated, and Aligned

Being grounded and self-regulated reflects an ability to modulate one’s level of nervous system arousal at will to remain in an optimal arousal zone (within one’s window of tolerance), using techniques such as breath practices, connecting to elements of present moment felt experience such as bringing awareness to contact points (e.g. feet to earth, buttocks to chair), and imagery (such as seeing or imagining roots growing down through the floor toward the core of the earth from one’s feet or perineum/root).

Alignment

Alignment refers to a subjective awareness of having a stable physical axis, typically experienced through the central channel of the body, either along or just in front of the spine. Energetic alignment may also be described as a:

  • A sense of stability, balance, or equipoise

  • A feeling deeply connected to oneself

  • Having the capacity to remain so even in the face of intense experiences.

Psychologically, alignment may refer to connecting to one’s values, sense of purpose, and ideals. An ability to draw on one’s practices to maintain grounding increases the health professional’s ability to trust deeply in the process during intense emotional or physical expressions by clients and to continue trusting this will unfold appropriately and complete itself meaningfully, in its own timing, possibly days or even weeks after the session itself.

Alignment

Alignment refers to a subjective awareness of having a stable physical axis, typically experienced through the central channel of the body, either along or just in front of the spine. Energetic alignment may also be described as a:

  • A sense of stability, balance, or equipoise

  • A feeling deeply connected to oneself

  • Having the capacity to remain so even in the face of intense experiences.

Psychologically, alignment may refer to connecting to one’s values, sense of purpose, and ideals. An ability to draw on one’s practices to maintain grounding increases the health professional’s ability to trust deeply in the process during intense emotional or physical expressions by clients and to continue trusting this will unfold appropriately and complete itself meaningfully, in its own timing, possibly days or even weeks after the session itself.

Note

There is a certain neutrality to this quality of presence (that is also an aspect of empathetic abiding presence described earlier) which serves the ability to remain non-judgmental of the client and their process, and aware of any significant shifts internally that might require further self-regulating practices to ground and neutralize. This aids in avoiding countertransference enactments and attuning to the client’s emotional and physiological state optimally to provide co-regulation and a sense of being accompanied by a trustworthy and stable guide.

Being grounded and aligned also supports an increased sense of the underlying organicity (internal wisdom and healing process) moving the therapeutic process forward, and of the mystery inherent in the world, both supporting sensitivity and curiosity (‘beginner’s mind’) toward the unfolding experience of the client.

References

Phelps, J. (2017). Developing Guidelines and Competencies for the Training of Psychedelic Therapists. Journal of Humanistic Psychology, 57(5), 450-487. https://doi.org/10.1177/0022167817711304